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Post by Deleted on Sept 28, 2015 15:51:18 GMT -5
She can say No as much as she wants I won't believe her. If it was 100 % sure for her to not come back they would have killed Elena. I think if season 7 of TVD will not be the last she will be back for season 8 or even at the end of season 7. For sure she is a good actress and can do more than TVD but becoming a moviestar is difficult. I might be wrong but the only one who became famous via a TV show and ended up as moviestar in Hollywood blockbusters is Johnny Depp. Can anyone think of another one? For sure I wish Nina all the luck in the world with her career but I doubt she'll be sucessful without TVD. And it looks like she isn't sure about it herself because she agreed to leave the door wide open for her to come back to TVD. It would be so stupid not to bring her back after they stored Elena in a coffin instead of killing her. This storyline screams for a comeback. Did you honestly say that, cause that's an absurd statement to make? In one instance you say "she is a good actress and can do more than TVD," and another "I doubt she'll be successful without TVD." So which one is it, cause your arguments make no sense at all. It's really surprising you would say that about Nina given what you've seen of her over the years. Has she not shown you enough to warrant some confidence in her abilities? Or do you have some other idea in your head why she wouldn't be a success? Whatever the case, I have zero belief in it, cause she has every ingredient to be a successful actress, with and without TVD. So either you chose the wrong choice of word (successful) or your definition of it is an entirely different concept from mine. But I guess we'll find out soon enough, won't we?
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Post by Ruby on Sept 28, 2015 19:04:48 GMT -5
She can say No as much as she wants I won't believe her. If it was 100 % sure for her to not come back they would have killed Elena. I think if season 7 of TVD will not be the last she will be back for season 8 or even at the end of season 7. For sure she is a good actress and can do more than TVD but becoming a moviestar is difficult. I might be wrong but the only one who became famous via a TV show and ended up as moviestar in Hollywood blockbusters is Johnny Depp. Can anyone think of another one? For sure I wish Nina all the luck in the world with her career but I doubt she'll be sucessful without TVD. And it looks like she isn't sure about it herself because she agreed to leave the door wide open for her to come back to TVD. It would be so stupid not to bring her back after they stored Elena in a coffin instead of killing her. This storyline screams for a comeback. Did you honestly say that, cause that's an absurd statement to make? In one instance you say "she is a good actress and can do more than TVD," and another "I doubt she'll be successful without TVD." So which one is it, cause your arguments make no sense at all. It's really surprising you would say that about Nina given what you've seen of her over the years. Has she not shown you enough to warrant some confidence in her abilities? Or do you have some other idea in your head why she wouldn't be a success? Whatever the case, I have zero belief in it, cause she has every ingredient to be a successful actress, with and without TVD. So either you chose the wrong choice of word (successful) or your definition of it is an entirely different concept from mine. But I guess we'll find out soon enough, won't we? Dman I understand you might not agree with Kiki's opinion but there are ways to express it and I feel you are putting down her opinion and her at the same time. Now on the note regarding NINA, I see Kiki point regarding it being difficult for people to transition from tv show to movie star. Nina has already been in a couple of movies. She's a lil more out there more than other actors on TVD maybe along with ian. So I guess we have to wait and watch as she branches out. Besides JOhnny Depp, Jennifer Aniston, Martin Lawrence, Will Smith etc....
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Post by Deleted on Sept 28, 2015 22:42:06 GMT -5
Did you honestly say that, cause that's an absurd statement to make? In one instance you say "she is a good actress and can do more than TVD," and another "I doubt she'll be successful without TVD." So which one is it, cause your arguments make no sense at all. It's really surprising you would say that about Nina given what you've seen of her over the years. Has she not shown you enough to warrant some confidence in her abilities? Or do you have some other idea in your head why she wouldn't be a success? Whatever the case, I have zero belief in it, cause she has every ingredient to be a successful actress, with and without TVD. So either you chose the wrong choice of word (successful) or your definition of it is an entirely different concept from mine. But I guess we'll find out soon enough, won't we? Dman I understand you might not agree with Kiki's opinion but there are ways to express it and I feel you are putting down her opinion and her at the same time. Now on the note regarding NINA, I see Kiki point regarding it being difficult for people to transition from tv show to movie star. Nina has already been in a couple of movies. She's a lil more out there more than other actors on TVD maybe along with ian. So I guess we have to wait and watch as she branches out. Besides JOhnny Depp, Jennifer Aniston, Martin Lawrence, Will Smith etc.... I like Kiki, but that's still an absurd statement to make. I have no other way of seeing it. Plus, it's not backed up by fact or history. Even being hypothetical, the percentages aren't on her side. Nina has continually proven how good of an actress she is, and given the opportunity, she will definitely transition to a successful career outside the show. I'm not saying it will be easy, but she has everything it takes to do it. I expected a casual fan to make that statement, not someone who has known Nina for six years. There are many mediocre actors and actresses on more successful TV shows, so I don't see how Nina with her talents can't be among them. I'm not just saying this because I'm a fan of hers, but because it's the truth. I know Kiki is a big fan of Paul Wesley, but from comparable history, he has less of a chance of being successful outside of TVD. The longest time Paul has been on a show --besides TVD-- is 11 episodes on American Dreams. Whereas Nina was on Degrassi (a more popular show than American Dreams, btw) for 52 episodes. And as far as movies are concerned, where is the blockbuster Paul starred in? All I see are indies and B movies no has ever heard of. Granted, Nina has only been in a handful of movies, but she's still young, which means she has more of an opportunity to be successful at it. Now, I'm not saying Paul Wesley is a failure or isn't talented--he is; but if we were to add the percentages and use history as a guide, Paul would be the one less likely to be a success outside of TVD. Of course, if success is defined by blockbuster movies or long stints on hit TV shows, then clearly he hasn't done it outside the show. But if success is defined by a steady career that ultimately culminated with a huge role on a hit TV show, then by all means he is successful. It's all a matter of what perspective you take. But Kiki was going for the former, and I didn't think that was fair to do, especially when Nina has more of a history behind her. Also, Nina had so much confidence in herself and her career prospects that she left a cushy job on a show she no longer wanted to be a part of. She had a plan, and she stuck to it. She could've easily stayed and made more money, but she left, and I can't help but respect her for that. Speaks volumes about who she is I think. Talk about guts! As far as your opinion about my response to kiki: I understand it's your site, but you need to back off a little sometimes. Especially when there isn't anything offensive being said. Kiki is an adult and can handle herself. I don't think she needs you to defend her. If she had a problem, I'm sure she would've said something by now. This isn't me being disrespectful, just an observation and a point. Plus, I've known her for a long time (a lot longer than I've known you), and I would never say anything offensive to her. I had a strong disagreement with her, and that was it. Nothing more. Also, Shoe and I had a disagreement a while back, and he threw an off-handed comment my way. Did I run to you to solve it? No. Did you or any moderator even comment about it? No, none of you did. But you didn't had to, cause I handled it. Him and I had a discussion and we came to an agreement. Problem solved. Adults acting like adults without someone babying them. Of course if things escalated you would be well within your rights to step in, but it never came to that. I like you Ruby, and I'm sure you'll have your opinion about this, but you need to lay off sometimes. It's not necessary for you to criticize every argument I have with someone, especially when there's worse things being said out there.
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Post by Kiki on Sept 28, 2015 22:46:15 GMT -5
Dman I understand you might not agree with Kiki's opinion but there are ways to express it and I feel you are putting down her opinion and her at the same time. Now on the note regarding NINA, I see Kiki point regarding it being difficult for people to transition from tv show to movie star. Nina has already been in a couple of movies. She's a lil more out there more than other actors on TVD maybe along with ian. So I guess we have to wait and watch as she branches out. Besides JOhnny Depp, Jennifer Aniston, Martin Lawrence, Will Smith etc.... I like Kiki, but that's still an absurd statement to make. I have no other way of seeing it. Plus, it's not backed up by fact or history. Even being hypothetical, the percentages aren't on her side. Nina has continually proven how good of an actress she is, and given the opportunity, she will definitely transition to a successful career outside the show. I'm not saying it will be easy, but she has everything it takes to do it. I expected a casual fan to make that statement, not someone who has known Nina for six years. There are many mediocre actors and actresses on more successful TV shows, so I don't see how Nina with her talents can't be among them. I'm not just saying this because I'm a fan of hers, but because it's the truth. I know Kiki is a big fan of Paul Wesley, but from comparable history, he has less of a chance of being successful outside of TVD. The longest time Paul has been on a show --besides TVD-- is 11 episodes on American Dreams. Whereas Nina was on Degrassi (a more popular show than American Dreams, btw) for 52 episodes. And as far as movies are concerned, where is the blockbuster Paul starred in? All I see are indies and B movies no has ever heard of. Granted, Nina has only been in a handful of movies, but she's still young, which means she has more of an opportunity to be successful at it. Now, I'm not saying Paul Wesley is a failure or isn't talented--he is; but if we were to add the percentages and use history as a guide, Paul would be the one less likely to be a success outside of TVD. Of course, if success is defined by blockbuster movies or long stints on hit TV shows, then clearly he hasn't done it outside the show. But if success is defined by a steady career that ultimately culminated with a huge role on a hit TV show, then by all means he is successful. It's all a matter of what perspective you take. But Kiki was going for the former, and I didn't think that was fair to do, especially when Nina has more of a history behind her. Also, Nina had so much confidence in herself and her career prospects that she left a cushy job on a show she no longer wanted to be a part of. She had a plan, and she stuck to it. She could've easily stayed and made more money, but she left, and I can't help but respect her for that. Speaks volumes about who she is I think. Talk about guts! As far as your opinion about my response to kiki: I understand it's your site, but you need to back off a little sometimes. Especially when there isn't anything offensive being said. Kiki is an adult and can handle herself. I don't think she needs you to defend her. If she had a problem, I'm sure she would've said something by now. This isn't me being disrespectful, just an observation and a point. Plus, I've known her for a long time (a lot longer than I've known you), and I would never say anything offensive to her. I had a strong disagreement with her, and that was it. Nothing more. Also, Shoe and I had a disagreement a while back, and he threw an off-handed comment my way. Did I run to you to solve it? No. Did you or any moderator even comment about it? No, none of you did. But you didn't had to, cause I handled it. Him and I had a discussion and we came to an agreement. Problem solved. Adults acting like adults without someone babying them. Of course if things escalated you would be well within your rights to step in, but it never came to that. I like you Ruby, and I'm sure you'll have your opinion about this, but you need to lay off sometimes. It's not necessary for you to criticize every argument I have with someone, especially when there's worse things being said out there. I like nina and I wish her all the best but please allow me to have doubts without calling me absurd (twice) Also we were not speaking about Paul so no need to bash on him just to "punish" me for my opinion about Nina
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Post by Deleted on Sept 28, 2015 23:04:34 GMT -5
I like Kiki, but that's still an absurd statement to make. I have no other way of seeing it. Plus, it's not backed up by fact or history. Even being hypothetical, the percentages aren't on her side. Nina has continually proven how good of an actress she is, and given the opportunity, she will definitely transition to a successful career outside the show. I'm not saying it will be easy, but she has everything it takes to do it. I expected a casual fan to make that statement, not someone who has known Nina for six years. There are many mediocre actors and actresses on more successful TV shows, so I don't see how Nina with her talents can't be among them. I'm not just saying this because I'm a fan of hers, but because it's the truth. I know Kiki is a big fan of Paul Wesley, but from comparable history, he has less of a chance of being successful outside of TVD. The longest time Paul has been on a show --besides TVD-- is 11 episodes on American Dreams. Whereas Nina was on Degrassi (a more popular show than American Dreams, btw) for 52 episodes. And as far as movies are concerned, where is the blockbuster Paul starred in? All I see are indies and B movies no has ever heard of. Granted, Nina has only been in a handful of movies, but she's still young, which means she has more of an opportunity to be successful at it. Now, I'm not saying Paul Wesley is a failure or isn't talented--he is; but if we were to add the percentages and use history as a guide, Paul would be the one less likely to be a success outside of TVD. Of course, if success is defined by blockbuster movies or long stints on hit TV shows, then clearly he hasn't done it outside the show. But if success is defined by a steady career that ultimately culminated with a huge role on a hit TV show, then by all means he is successful. It's all a matter of what perspective you take. But Kiki was going for the former, and I didn't think that was fair to do, especially when Nina has more of a history behind her. Also, Nina had so much confidence in herself and her career prospects that she left a cushy job on a show she no longer wanted to be a part of. She had a plan, and she stuck to it. She could've easily stayed and made more money, but she left, and I can't help but respect her for that. Speaks volumes about who she is I think. Talk about guts! As far as your opinion about my response to kiki: I understand it's your site, but you need to back off a little sometimes. Especially when there isn't anything offensive being said. Kiki is an adult and can handle herself. I don't think she needs you to defend her. If she had a problem, I'm sure she would've said something by now. This isn't me being disrespectful, just an observation and a point. Plus, I've known her for a long time (a lot longer than I've known you), and I would never say anything offensive to her. I had a strong disagreement with her, and that was it. Nothing more. Also, Shoe and I had a disagreement a while back, and he threw an off-handed comment my way. Did I run to you to solve it? No. Did you or any moderator even comment about it? No, none of you did. But you didn't had to, cause I handled it. Him and I had a discussion and we came to an agreement. Problem solved. Adults acting like adults without someone babying them. Of course if things escalated you would be well within your rights to step in, but it never came to that. I like you Ruby, and I'm sure you'll have your opinion about this, but you need to lay off sometimes. It's not necessary for you to criticize every argument I have with someone, especially when there's worse things being said out there. I like nina and I wish her all the best but please allow me to have doubts without calling me absurd (twice) Also we were not speaking about Paul so no need to bash on him just to "punish" me for my opinion about Nina You can have your doubts, but it doesn't mean I have to agree with them. And I don't. But I did not call you absurd, I said your statement was absurd. Yes, you were not speaking about Paul, but I included him as a comparison, not to punish you, but to illustrate a point. And, if you like Nina so much, you certainly have a way of showing it. Not a lot of faith in her, have you?
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Post by tara on Sept 28, 2015 23:06:22 GMT -5
I like Kiki, but that's still an absurd statement to make. I have no other way of seeing it. Plus, it's not backed up by fact or history. Even being hypothetical, the percentages aren't on her side. Nina has continually proven how good of an actress she is, and given the opportunity, she will definitely transition to a successful career outside the show. I'm not saying it will be easy, but she has everything it takes to do it. I expected a casual fan to make that statement, not someone who has known Nina for six years. There are many mediocre actors and actresses on more successful TV shows, so I don't see how Nina with her talents can't be among them. I'm not just saying this because I'm a fan of hers, but because it's the truth. I know Kiki is a big fan of Paul Wesley, but from comparable history, he has less of a chance of being successful outside of TVD. The longest time Paul has been on a show --besides TVD-- is 11 episodes on American Dreams. Whereas Nina was on Degrassi (a more popular show than American Dreams, btw) for 52 episodes. And as far as movies are concerned, where is the blockbuster Paul starred in? All I see are indies and B movies no has ever heard of. Granted, Nina has only been in a handful of movies, but she's still young, which means she has more of an opportunity to be successful at it. Now, I'm not saying Paul Wesley is a failure or isn't talented--he is; but if we were to add the percentages and use history as a guide, Paul would be the one less likely to be a success outside of TVD. Of course, if success is defined by blockbuster movies or long stints on hit TV shows, then clearly he hasn't done it outside the show. But if success is defined by a steady career that ultimately culminated with a huge role on a hit TV show, then by all means he is successful. It's all a matter of what perspective you take. But Kiki was going for the former, and I didn't think that was fair to do, especially when Nina has more of a history behind her. Also, Nina had so much confidence in herself and her career prospects that she left a cushy job on a show she no longer wanted to be a part of. She had a plan, and she stuck to it. She could've easily stayed and made more money, but she left, and I can't help but respect her for that. Speaks volumes about who she is I think. Talk about guts! As far as your opinion about my response to kiki: I understand it's your site, but you need to back off a little sometimes. Especially when there isn't anything offensive being said. Kiki is an adult and can handle herself. I don't think she needs you to defend her. If she had a problem, I'm sure she would've said something by now. This isn't me being disrespectful, just an observation and a point. Plus, I've known her for a long time (a lot longer than I've known you), and I would never say anything offensive to her. I had a strong disagreement with her, and that was it. Nothing more. Also, Shoe and I had a disagreement a while back, and he threw an off-handed comment my way. Did I run to you to solve it? No. Did you or any moderator even comment about it? No, none of you did. But you didn't had to, cause I handled it. Him and I had a discussion and we came to an agreement. Problem solved. Adults acting like adults without someone babying them. Of course if things escalated you would be well within your rights to step in, but it never came to that. I like you Ruby, and I'm sure you'll have your opinion about this, but you need to lay off sometimes. It's not necessary for you to criticize every argument I have with someone, especially when there's worse things being said out there.Dman- 1. Please respect everyone on the board. This includes the Mods, the admin and the members. 2. No harassment or negative attacks towards any members or staff on the board. 3. Try to be polite as possible. Avoid Rude remarks towards anyone on the board. 4. Make sure to not insult a poster or a poster's opinion. It is okay to disagree with them but DO NOT under any circumstances make them feel or imply that their opinions are worthless or of non importance. Give them your reason as to why you might disagree but do not state their opinion is stupid etc. Read more: tvdshow.proboards.com/thread/22/board-rules#ixzz3n63cg5kwWe have rules that we enforce when we see issues. Calling another members opinion "absurd" is not ok. It's right in the rules. If you see something you don't like or agree with, you can chose to ignore it. Kiki didn't put Nina down. She was pointing out how hard it is to make it in Hollywood. Which is true.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 28, 2015 23:10:45 GMT -5
I like Kiki, but that's still an absurd statement to make. I have no other way of seeing it. Plus, it's not backed up by fact or history. Even being hypothetical, the percentages aren't on her side. Nina has continually proven how good of an actress she is, and given the opportunity, she will definitely transition to a successful career outside the show. I'm not saying it will be easy, but she has everything it takes to do it. I expected a casual fan to make that statement, not someone who has known Nina for six years. There are many mediocre actors and actresses on more successful TV shows, so I don't see how Nina with her talents can't be among them. I'm not just saying this because I'm a fan of hers, but because it's the truth. I know Kiki is a big fan of Paul Wesley, but from comparable history, he has less of a chance of being successful outside of TVD. The longest time Paul has been on a show --besides TVD-- is 11 episodes on American Dreams. Whereas Nina was on Degrassi (a more popular show than American Dreams, btw) for 52 episodes. And as far as movies are concerned, where is the blockbuster Paul starred in? All I see are indies and B movies no has ever heard of. Granted, Nina has only been in a handful of movies, but she's still young, which means she has more of an opportunity to be successful at it. Now, I'm not saying Paul Wesley is a failure or isn't talented--he is; but if we were to add the percentages and use history as a guide, Paul would be the one less likely to be a success outside of TVD. Of course, if success is defined by blockbuster movies or long stints on hit TV shows, then clearly he hasn't done it outside the show. But if success is defined by a steady career that ultimately culminated with a huge role on a hit TV show, then by all means he is successful. It's all a matter of what perspective you take. But Kiki was going for the former, and I didn't think that was fair to do, especially when Nina has more of a history behind her. Also, Nina had so much confidence in herself and her career prospects that she left a cushy job on a show she no longer wanted to be a part of. She had a plan, and she stuck to it. She could've easily stayed and made more money, but she left, and I can't help but respect her for that. Speaks volumes about who she is I think. Talk about guts! As far as your opinion about my response to kiki: I understand it's your site, but you need to back off a little sometimes. Especially when there isn't anything offensive being said. Kiki is an adult and can handle herself. I don't think she needs you to defend her. If she had a problem, I'm sure she would've said something by now. This isn't me being disrespectful, just an observation and a point. Plus, I've known her for a long time (a lot longer than I've known you), and I would never say anything offensive to her. I had a strong disagreement with her, and that was it. Nothing more. Also, Shoe and I had a disagreement a while back, and he threw an off-handed comment my way. Did I run to you to solve it? No. Did you or any moderator even comment about it? No, none of you did. But you didn't had to, cause I handled it. Him and I had a discussion and we came to an agreement. Problem solved. Adults acting like adults without someone babying them. Of course if things escalated you would be well within your rights to step in, but it never came to that. I like you Ruby, and I'm sure you'll have your opinion about this, but you need to lay off sometimes. It's not necessary for you to criticize every argument I have with someone, especially when there's worse things being said out there.Dman- 1. Please respect everyone on the board. This includes the Mods, the admin and the members. 2. No harassment or negative attacks towards any members or staff on the board. 3. Try to be polite as possible. Avoid Rude remarks towards anyone on the board. 4. Make sure to not insult a poster or a poster's opinion. It is okay to disagree with them but DO NOT under any circumstances make them feel or imply that their opinions are worthless or of non importance. Give them your reason as to why you might disagree but do not state their opinion is stupid etc. Read more: tvdshow.proboards.com/thread/22/board-rules#ixzz3n63cg5kwWe have rules that we enforce when we see issues. Calling another members opinion "absurd" is not ok. It's right in the rules. If you see something you don't like or agree with, you can chose to ignore it. Kiki didn't put Nina down. She was pointing out how hard it is to make it in Hollywood. Which is true. Why are you even contacting me? Ruby already said what needed to be said. You're so predictable. I knew it was only a matter of time before you showed up.
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Post by tara on Sept 28, 2015 23:16:37 GMT -5
Why are you even contacting me? Ruby already said what needed to be said. You're so predictable. I knew it was only a matter of time before you showed up. I replied because of the way you responded to Ruby. I'm sorry if you have an issue with that. Don't really know where the animosity is coming from.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 29, 2015 6:07:23 GMT -5
@dman24 im pretty sure I'm already pretty lenient especially when it comes to you. Kiki can defend herself, I have no doubt in that but if I catch a violation within my site I like to call it out and yours was the one I happened to catch. It's ok to disagree with someone but rude comments are not allowed and I took your comment as rude. Maybe it's bc the context of text can be interpreted many ways but ive known you quite a while to understand the way you write. If a mod corrects you its for a reason. The issue with shoe I let it slide bc when I saw it, shoe had already responded and you guys had fixed it and even then shoe was messaged. Do not under any circumstance respond to tara ever again the way you just did. She is a mod n clearly was writing to you in response to how you responded to me n adding on to the situation with kiki which she has every right to. That can lead to a ban from the site which I would never like to do especially since I like you as a poster here and appreciate your perspective and sense of humor. I will not tolerate the disrespect. This will be the last warning. Sent from my SM-G900T using proboards
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Post by Deleted on Sept 29, 2015 15:12:38 GMT -5
@dman24 im pretty sure I'm already pretty lenient especially when it comes to you. Kiki can defend herself, I have no doubt in that but if I catch a violation within my site I like to call it out and yours was the one I happened to catch. It's ok to disagree with someone but rude comments are not allowed and I took your comment as rude. Maybe it's bc the context of text can be interpreted many ways but ive known you quite a while to understand the way you write. If a mod corrects you its for a reason. The issue with shoe I let it slide bc when I saw it, shoe had already responded and you guys had fixed it and even then shoe was messaged. Do not under any circumstance respond to tara ever again the way you just did. She is a mod n clearly was writing to you in response to how you responded to me n adding on to the situation with kiki which she has every right to. That can lead to a ban from the site which I would never like to do especially since I like you as a poster here and appreciate your perspective and sense of humor. I will not tolerate the disrespect. This will be the last warning. Sent from my SM-G900T using proboards I will make this really easy for you Ruby. Below this comment, state that you don't want me on this site anymore and I'll close out my account and you'll never hear from me again. It's as simple as that. I won't be on a site that criticizes every argument I have with someone, especially when nothing offensive is being said. There are numerous sites on the internet about TVD, and I can easily join one of them. But personally, I waste enough time commenting about a show I'm semi-interested in anyway. It's only out of sheer loyalty do I still watch it. I could easily spend that time doing other productive things with my life. So really, you threatening me with a ban doesn't scare me. And you barking orders doesn't impress me either. Saying that, I certainly don't mind staying on the site. There are fans that I like on here and would certainly miss. But I won't tolerate your unnecessary criticisms anymore. It's clear we've come to a fork in the road and it's time for you to make a decision.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 29, 2015 17:19:26 GMT -5
@dman24 im pretty sure I'm already pretty lenient especially when it comes to you. Kiki can defend herself, I have no doubt in that but if I catch a violation within my site I like to call it out and yours was the one I happened to catch. It's ok to disagree with someone but rude comments are not allowed and I took your comment as rude. Maybe it's bc the context of text can be interpreted many ways but ive known you quite a while to understand the way you write. If a mod corrects you its for a reason. The issue with shoe I let it slide bc when I saw it, shoe had already responded and you guys had fixed it and even then shoe was messaged. Do not under any circumstance respond to tara ever again the way you just did. She is a mod n clearly was writing to you in response to how you responded to me n adding on to the situation with kiki which she has every right to. That can lead to a ban from the site which I would never like to do especially since I like you as a poster here and appreciate your perspective and sense of humor. I will not tolerate the disrespect. This will be the last warning. Sent from my SM-G900T using proboards I will make this really easy for you Ruby. Below this comment, state that you don't want me on this site anymore and I'll close out my account and you'll never hear from me again. It's as simple as that. I won't be on a site that criticizes every argument I have with someone, especially when nothing offensive is being said. There are numerous sites on the internet about TVD, and I can easily join one of them. But personally, I waste enough time commenting about a show I'm semi-interested in anyway. It's only out of sheer loyalty do I still watch it. I could easily spend that time doing other productive things with my life. So really, you threatening me with a ban doesn't scare me. And you barking orders doesn't impress me either. Saying that, I certainly don't mind staying on the site. There are fans that I like on here and would certainly miss. But I won't tolerate your unnecessary criticisms anymore. It's clear we've come to a fork in the road and it's time for you to make a decision. Lol @dman24 I have never barked orders at you man. Its been the same rule over and over again that you continue to violate. I would not like for you to leave. All I ask that within your arguments you try not to put the opinions of others down. Its that simple. you have had issues with numerous people that have a problem with the issue. Its not just me or tara observing your commentary it is also being brought to our attention. And the ban wasnt a threat nor was it said with the intention to scare you bc quite frankly we both know that wouldnt work with you anyway. Its just to bring to your attention whats the consequence of repeatedly violating the rules. Sent from my SM-G900T using proboards
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Post by Deleted on Sept 29, 2015 18:39:11 GMT -5
I will make this really easy for you Ruby. Below this comment, state that you don't want me on this site anymore and I'll close out my account and you'll never hear from me again. It's as simple as that. I won't be on a site that criticizes every argument I have with someone, especially when nothing offensive is being said. There are numerous sites on the internet about TVD, and I can easily join one of them. But personally, I waste enough time commenting about a show I'm semi-interested in anyway. It's only out of sheer loyalty do I still watch it. I could easily spend that time doing other productive things with my life. So really, you threatening me with a ban doesn't scare me. And you barking orders doesn't impress me either. Saying that, I certainly don't mind staying on the site. There are fans that I like on here and would certainly miss. But I won't tolerate your unnecessary criticisms anymore. It's clear we've come to a fork in the road and it's time for you to make a decision. Lol @dman24 I have never barked orders at you man. Its been the same rule over and over again that you continue to violate. I would not like for you to leave. All I ask that within your arguments you try not to put the opinions of others down. Its that simple. you have had issues with numerous people that have a problem with the issue. Its not just me or tara observing your commentary it is also being brought to our attention. And the ban wasnt a threat nor was it said with the intention to scare you bc quite frankly we both know that wouldnt work with you anyway. Its just to bring to your attention whats the consequence of repeatedly violating the rules. Sent from my SM-G900T using proboards Clearly your previous comment contradicts everything you just said, but it's obvious you've made your decision. We need to come to an understanding though. I have strong opinions when it comes to certain things. When I feel that someone is being outrageously unfair or ridiculously illogical, I will say something. That is who I am and it will never change. But I am not a bully, nor am I interested in criticizing everyone's comments. That is only done in extreme circumstances. Most of the time I'm happy to have a discussion with someone, which I've clearly shown in my time on the site. So going forward, instead of you and tara jumping on every argument (which is rare, btw) I have with someone, how about you let us handle things ourselves. If anything escalates you can step in. But rarely will that happen anyway. I will try to limit the occasional flareups I have, but I can't guarantee that will happen all the time. It all depends on the situation.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 29, 2015 19:26:34 GMT -5
@dman24 how does my comment contradict anything ive said?
Also there was already suppose to be an understanding. Just follow the rules. Theres no other way around it. I get it sometimes we get flared up n passionate over certain things but theres always a way to voice your opinion without the belittling of someones opinion.
And the mods here don't really bother so I don't appreciate when you straight disrespect mods like tara who im pretty sure has never came at you disrespectful. You are always trying to challenge a decision made. Even when I put an official warning on your name.
Its not just me and tara. I could even do an anonymous poll if u would like...
So this is the last warning. It's not a threat. Im going to lay off like you have asked. The minute someone reports a comment or something escalates and you're involved, I will have to intervene and it will be the last.
Please do not respond on the defense mode. I dont say this with any hatred or anger. The situation is what it is.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 29, 2015 19:51:39 GMT -5
@dman24 how does my comment contradict anything ive said? Also there was already suppose to be an understanding. Just follow the rules. Theres no other way around it. I get it sometimes we get flared up n passionate over certain things but theres always a way to voice your opinion without the belittling of someones opinion. And the mods here don't really bother so I don't appreciate when you straight disrespect mods like tara who im pretty sure has never came at you disrespectful. You are always trying to challenge a decision made. Even when I put an official warning on your name. Its not just me and tara. I could even do an anonymous poll if u would like... So this is the last warning. It's not a threat. Im going to lay off like you have asked. The minute someone reports a comment or something escalates and you're involved, I will have to intervene and it will be the last. Please do not respond on the defense mode. I dont say this with any hatred or anger. The situation is what it is. Sent from my SM-G900T using proboards Sorry, but I have no interest in living under a threat like that. Especially when I've never said anything offensive to anyone on the site. I will be closing my account after this. This is my last comment. I'm just writing this to let you know. deb, shoe20, jennifer, crimmyj, it's been fun.
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Post by Ruby on Sept 29, 2015 19:57:08 GMT -5
@dman24 sorry to see you go especially under the circumstance. wish it didn't come down to that. I wish you the best
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