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Post by Ruby on May 31, 2013 14:58:56 GMT -5
Gotcha thats how it was on our old site. Many of pro stefans never went near the DEs n stuck to our lovely SE bubble hehe... its cool =)
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Post by Deleted on May 31, 2013 15:23:31 GMT -5
Wow I feel sorry for me when We get some DE's who feel strongly about it that you do about your hate for Damon etc hahahahahah and then they get into a debate with you. I can see it now oh lord hahahahah. You would have hated our other place but you probably would have been shutting some Des up or Riling them up lol but anyways You made some valid points! I will definitely get back to them though later on when I get home because I am at work and I will need to sit down and get into this one! =D But that's the thing my preference is to not engage in any DE debates. If we ever get any DE fans, I will never go to the Damon or Delana folders. Under this neutral folder if anyone writes about how much they hate Stefan then I will not answer because once I saw the topic - anti-Stefan or anti-SE - I would not read it. I know that sounds horrible but there was so much anti-SE, anti-Stefan, pro-DE, pro-Damon on the other site, that I've had my lifetime supply of
My preference even on the other site was to only respond or support SE and Stefan fans - there weren't any Bonnie, Caroline or other character fans but I don't really mind any other pairings Forwood, Klaroline, Maroline, Mabekah, Beremy, Bamon etc. so I will engage in discussion with them with the one exception of Steroline - hate it! It was only if someone responded to one of my postings, as you have done, that I would respond in return. I will read your response and I may still respond in return depending on what you write, but no one, except for the writers changing Damon's character, can change how I feel about Damon.
I still get to know the DE perspective because I visit sites like Stelenabeauty, Stelena Appreciation and Mystic downfall which all get anti-Stefan and pro-Damon asks/comments and they all do a fantastic job of responding.
Which site do you mean Napoli? VDN or tvd1.proboards? VDN used to rock, I was on it for almost 3 ys, we all got along well, DEs SEs Team Nobodys, The big change came around November 2012 when that idiot Ravn appeared on the surface and people began to worship her and her anti Stefan/antiSE attitude. Every thread was spammed up to 3000 comments, of which about 2800 were full of DE and Damon and sex fantasies with him, after they left and had their own forum Damn Central, the site kind of turned peaceful again, but alot of people had left before already, I quit VDN around JAn/February, bc I was bored to death with the fandom there. I seriuosly hope that no Damon/DEs turn or not that many turn up here, bc this is already the third fanpage for me.There is no peaceful coexistence with them, that is what experience has taught me... I didnt have all this trouble, because my darling is and always will be ELijah and I have a more wholesome approach of the series, that is that, but I think I am Stefan/SE fan by default
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Post by teppy1 on May 31, 2013 16:11:58 GMT -5
wait to go napoli! I agree. I just can't with Damon (I will let napoli's post speak for me hehe) then I would say Rose because she was just a prop for DE and lastly I would say Vicki... I just never liked her. Otherwise I pretty much like all the character on TVD even the small ones.
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Post by napoli on May 31, 2013 16:17:54 GMT -5
Which site do you mean Napoli? VDN or tvd1.proboards? VDN used to rock, I was on it for almost 3 ys, we all got along well, DEs SEs Team Nobodys, The big change came around November 2012 when that idiot Ravn appeared on the surface and people began to worship her and her anti Stefan/antiSE attitude. Every thread was spammed up to 3000 comments, of which about 2800 were full of DE and Damon and sex fantasies with him, after they left and had their own forum Damn Central, the site kind of turned peaceful again, but alot of people had left before already, I quit VDN around JAn/February, bc I was bored to death with the fandom there. I seriuosly hope that no Damon/DEs turn or not that many turn up here, bc this is already the third fanpage for me.There is no peaceful coexistence with them, that is what experience has taught me... I didnt have all this trouble, because my darling is and always will be ELijah and I have a more wholesome approach of the series, that is that, but I think I am Stefan/SE fan by default I went to VDN around the time the sire bond was revealed because my little brain just couldn't get around the horror I was watching! It was around December 2012 and it was ridiculous because it was all anti-Stefan comments and as you said so many comments so it was hard to filter through and find any other opinion. I tried posting but would get shot down by so many within minutes. That group moved off but many DE's remain and they are still quite vocal and numerous. After the finale many from the old group came back and posted with a vengeance. I can think of only 2 others eve and jethro who were SE and tried to answer to a lot of the DE comments for the finale. I didn't mind discussing with DE/Damon fans at first because I was truly interested in knowing why the other person felt the way they did. But inevitably, when my own opinion wouldn't budge, the name-calling and mocking would start: delusional, that I am twisting the story to suit my purpose, or just not understand what was happening. I slung my own insults in angered response but really that's not fun so I just started ignoring the screen names that I knew were DE. Btw, if Stefan was killed off the show I would want Elena with Elijah. I love Elijah too and will watch the Originals because of him.
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Post by napoli on May 31, 2013 16:37:07 GMT -5
Gotcha thats how it was on our old site. Many of pro stefans never went near the DEs n stuck to our lovely SE bubble hehe... itsol =) Just wondering, what happened with the old site? If everyone just stayed in their own thread how did it go wrong?
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Post by deb on May 31, 2013 17:09:11 GMT -5
Who was your LEAST favorite Character AND why? Damon, for all the reasons, Napoli so brilliantly mentioned and many many more... I also think that if Elena were sired to Stefan, he would have set her free and he would have gone away. Damon has no excuses Ahahaha, sorry Ruby, but we won't let you ban her Oh, and yes, I feel sorry for you too if DE's come in here because I'm sure you're the only mood who can do a good work in the Damon/DE/anti-Stefan/anti-SE thread. Napoli, in the other site, the moods were all DE's and anti-Stefan. So, whenever we said something that they didn't like about DE or Damon, they would create a new rule and delete our posts or they would just ban us... Also, they had rules that we had to respect but they didn't. But, what made us leave was the fact that, before episode 23, we made a post about the DE song (I don't belong to you). When they saw it, they went crazy because they thought that Damon wouldn't be Elena's choice again so they said that, if that happened, they would forbid any negative posts about Damon or DE and they would ban all the SE's that said anything bad about Damon and DE. So, we decided to leave and, believe me, we should have done it before!
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Post by Deleted on May 31, 2013 17:16:38 GMT -5
Which site do you mean Napoli? VDN or tvd1.proboards? VDN used to rock, I was on it for almost 3 ys, we all got along well, DEs SEs Team Nobodys, The big change came around November 2012 when that idiot Ravn appeared on the surface and people began to worship her and her anti Stefan/antiSE attitude. Every thread was spammed up to 3000 comments, of which about 2800 were full of DE and Damon and sex fantasies with him, after they left and had their own forum Damn Central, the site kind of turned peaceful again, but alot of people had left before already, I quit VDN around JAn/February, bc I was bored to death with the fandom there. I seriuosly hope that no Damon/DEs turn or not that many turn up here, bc this is already the third fanpage for me.There is no peaceful coexistence with them, that is what experience has taught me... I didnt have all this trouble, because my darling is and always will be ELijah and I have a more wholesome approach of the series, that is that, but I think I am Stefan/SE fan by default I went to VDN around the time the sire bond was revealed because my little brain just couldn't get around the horror I was watching! It was around December 2012 and it was ridiculous because it was all anti-Stefan comments and as you said so many comments so it was hard to filter through and find any other opinion. I tried posting but would get shot down by so many within minutes. That group moved off but many DE's remain and they are still quite vocal and numerous. After the finale many from the old group came back and posted with a vengeance. I can think of only 2 others eve and jethro who were SE and tried to answer to a lot of the DE comments for the finale. I didn't mind discussing with DE/Damon fans at first because I was truly interested in knowing why the other person felt the way they did. But inevitably, when my own opinion wouldn't budge, the name-calling and mocking would start: delusional, that I am twisting the story to suit my purpose, or just not understand what was happening. I slung my own insults in angered response but really that's not fun so I just started ignoring the screen names that I knew were DE. Btw, if Stefan was killed off the show I would want Elena with Elijah. I love Elijah too and will watch the Originals because of him. I kind of lost chemistry with many of my old firneds there, I was friends with Iansfan for over 2 ys and it kind of reduced to happy Christmas and happy Holidays after November 2012. Let me put it this way nothing attracts me ther anymore, except for the info, they are very well informed, so I read the posts, but do not comment there anymore. I am still talking about VDN. You know it is like in real life, sometimes you find that you have nothing to say to each other anymore. And a second factor was that was annoying the hell out of me was Georgia Peach, a bloated up self imposed TVD wikipedia, a pain in the a** and a would be know-it-all, the third thing that infuriated me was that moderator Kate who had slept like over 5 months and all of a sudden when the damage was done, they put up new rules and a regiment of "BIG BROTHER IS WATCHING YOU", she butts in every second comment now or deletes harmless comments like "Napoli how did you like the last episode, my dog was annoyed bc I cried all night" arrrrggggg, gggrrrrrrrr Honestly I m 47 ys old, I don't need that kindergarten anymore and people to tel me what to write or not, I wasn't even insulting anybody!!!! Go figure! </img> </img>
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Post by teppy1 on May 31, 2013 17:45:55 GMT -5
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Post by napoli on May 31, 2013 18:15:03 GMT -5
Who was your LEAST favorite Character AND why? Damon, for all the reasons, Napoli so brilliantly mentioned and many many more... I also think that if Elena were sired to Stefan, he would have set her free and he would have gone away. Damon has no excuses Ahahaha, sorry Ruby, but we won't let you ban her Oh, and yes, I feel sorry for you too if DE's come in here because I'm sure you're the only mood who can do a good work in the Damon/DE/anti-Stefan/anti-SE thread. Napoli, in the other site, the moods were all DE's and anti-Stefan. So, whenever we said something that they didn't like about DE or Damon, they would create a new rule and delete our posts or they would just ban us... Also, they had rules that we had to respect but they didn't. But, what made us leave was the fact that, before episode 23, we made a post about the DE song (I don't belong to you). When they saw it, they went crazy because they thought that Damon wouldn't be Elena's choice again so they said that, if that happened, they would forbid any negative posts about Damon or DE and they would ban all the SE's that said anything bad about Damon and DE. So, we decided to leave and, believe me, we should have done it before! Curiosity got the best of me and I went to your old site and I saw the rape rule...priceless! I've used that word on the vampire-diaries.net but never got banned. I mean, Damon did rape Caroline and Andie. Just because they didn't use that word on the show doesn't mean it wasn't rape. However I also used the words paternalistic and misogynist - Damon called Elena a b*** how many times? And he used physical force against her in previous seasons with the sire bond controlling her in this season bringing him to a new disgusting low. They wanted to ban you if DE wasn't together? Crazy!
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Post by napoli on May 31, 2013 18:16:16 GMT -5
The forum is gone but I posted in the comments section. Believe it or not they got up over 2000 comments at times...mostly DE.
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Post by teppy1 on May 31, 2013 18:17:29 GMT -5
oooh i see. I did not even know there was a comment section. I really liked that forum ---well I really liked the CW forum it is too bad both of them were shut down.
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Post by napoli on May 31, 2013 18:31:17 GMT -5
I kind of lost chemistry with many of my old firneds there, I was friends with Iansfan for over 2 ys and it kind of reduced to happy Christmas and happy Holidays after November 2012. Let me put it this way nothing attracts me ther anymore, except for the info, they are very well informed, so I read the posts, but do not comment there anymore. I am still talking about VDN. You know it is like in real life, sometimes you find that you have nothing to say to each other anymore. And a second factor was that was annoying the hell out of me was Georgia Peach, a bloated up self imposed TVD wikipedia, a pain in the a** and a would be know-it-all, the third thing that infuriated me was that moderator Kate who had slept like over 5 months and all of a sudden when the damage was done, they put up new rules and a regiment of "BIG BROTHER IS WATCHING YOU", she butts in every second comment now or deletes harmless comments like "Napoli how did you like the last episode, my dog was annoyed bc I cried all night" arrrrggggg, gggrrrrrrrr Honestly I m 47 ys old, I don't need that kindergarten anymore and people to tel me what to write or not, I wasn't even insulting anybody!!!! Go figure! </img> </img> Yes, GP is one of the worst ones. But there are a few others too that would post generic posts to no one in particular but insulting anti-DE fans yet moderators did nothing. Yet when I would do the same against DE fans somehow my posts would disappear. One of the reasons though that I continued to post even though I stopped reading almost all other posters except SE friendlys, is because I don't believe that a neutral TVD site should ever be that Damon friendly. I would never go to a Damon site. They can love Damon all they want without dispute. LOVE HIM IN DAMONLAND. But in a neutral place the other side of the story must be listed. In the fall I will go in and continue to post anti-DE because I hate him. If this site ever becomes so unbalanced that it is over run with DE then I will just stay in the SE bubble or leave. I know what you mean about off topic. At one point they were talking about Buffy without relating it back to TVD and the thread was getting pretty long yet the moderators let it go on for awhile before they stopped it. But with others the minute they said good morning it was deleted.
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Post by Ruby on May 31, 2013 18:54:14 GMT -5
Who was your LEAST favorite Character AND why? Damon, for all the reasons, Napoli so brilliantly mentioned and many many more... I also think that if Elena were sired to Stefan, he would have set her free and he would have gone away. Damon has no excuses Ahahaha, sorry Ruby, but we won't let you ban her Oh, and yes, I feel sorry for you too if DE's come in here because I'm sure you're the only mood who can do a good work in the Damon/DE/anti-Stefan/anti-SE thread. Napoli, in the other site, the moods were all DE's and anti-Stefan. So, whenever we said something that they didn't like about DE or Damon, they would create a new rule and delete our posts or they would just ban us... Also, they had rules that we had to respect but they didn't. But, what made us leave was the fact that, before episode 23, we made a post about the DE song (I don't belong to you). When they saw it, they went crazy because they thought that Damon wouldn't be Elena's choice again so they said that, if that happened, they would forbid any negative posts about Damon or DE and they would ban all the SE's that said anything bad about Damon and DE. So, we decided to leave and, believe me, we should have done it before! Curiosity got the best of me and I went to your old site and I saw the rape rule...priceless! I've used that word on the vampire-diaries.net but never got banned. I mean, Damon did rape Caroline and Andie. Just because they didn't use that word on the show doesn't mean it wasn't rape. However I also used the words paternalistic and misogynist - Damon called Elena a b*** how many times? And he used physical force against her in previous seasons with the sire bond controlling her in this season bringing him to a new disgusting low. They wanted to ban you if DE wasn't together? Crazy! Yea it was pretty ridiculous. And the fact they were thinking to make it de friendly if she didnt choose him. It upsets me every time because I tried to stick it out for all of us.
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Post by napoli on May 31, 2013 21:04:40 GMT -5
I would have been banned for sure. There loss is my huge gain!
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Post by Ruby on May 31, 2013 21:06:55 GMT -5
Aweeeee =D t
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